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| Posted: 05 Jan 2006 19:39 Last Edited By: handlemistakes | |
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Some people just don't get it. They can yell and yell for even the smallest mistake which make it impossible to satisfy such person. They could be angry because of bad relationships or because of someone else’s mistake, but they streamline their anger on you because it's somehow easier for him/her, this attitude is mostly the problem here.
So you are often the problem yourself, you respond their anger in a way that the target wants you to do. Whenever he/she gets a chance to blame you for something, the target will do so. Maybe it's because you’re too nice or because you react back very strongly. Whatever, you do, it's apparently wrong. Then you can always try another one. But it won’t help because the targets will still have the image of your reaction left in his/hers mind. So it is then better not to react at all. What this means is that this is the only method that works good on such people. It may not help to avoid further confrontations with that target, but it helps to decrease the minutes of the anger moment. If this method doesn't work as you expected then you should better try to get rid of the target. Do not use it on important targets that you are dependent on, because this can seriously hurt a relation. |
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